One-to-one life coaching for men
Let go of limitations and negative thinking while building lasting confidence. Gain clarity, emotional strength, and self-leadership
Men’s mindset and confidence coaching for ambitious men ready to take control of their life and move forward with certainty
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I've been there
You’re a smart, capable, and driven man – but still feel stuck.
Maybe it’s decision paralysis.
Maybe it’s that quiet voice telling you you’re meant for more.
Maybe success looks good on the outside, but feels hollow on the inside.
You’ve read the books. You’ve tried doing it alone. But nothing sticks for long.
And now you’re wondering: What’s really holding me back?
This isn’t about mindset hacks or just “thinking positive.”
This is about real, deep transformation – the kind that changes how men show up in every part of their lives:
– Getting clear on who you truly are (not who you’ve been told to be)
– Making aligned, purpose-led decisions with confidence
– Building emotional strength and grounded self-leadership
– Cultivating unshakable self-trust – even when life gets hard
This is the work we do… together.
One-to-one. Deep. Focused. Results-driven.
This isn’t therapy. It’s not mindset fluff.
It’s deep, practical, identity-shifting coaching for men who are ready to lead themselves, live on purpose, and build real momentum.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and start living from a place of confidence, purpose and inner power – this is your next move.
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I’M SCOTT HARDIMAN
I struggled my whole life with an intense feeling of low confidence and feeling less than and it impacted every area of my life. Eventually it manifested into debilitating anxiety which I ‘managed’ for many years.
At the time I didn’t know a lot about myself, my mind, the power of personal development and coaching but that was soon to change and as a result, change my life forever.
I have always been a student of life. Inspired to learn more, be more, to grow and develop. My dreams kept me up at night.
The challenge for many years of my life was I had no idea how to make those dreams into a reality.
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In my past life I was a funeral director for 9 years, a fast moving (believe it or not), high performance environment where everything had to run like clockwork. It feels strange to say but I was bloody good at it.
Even so, I knew it wasn’t what I wanted to do forever. I had always dreamed of starting my own business but at that point, I had no idea what that might look like.
As time went on, my low confidence, negative thoughts and anxiety spiralled. I remember doing a talk in front of a charity group and having to walk out half way through because of an anxiety attack. This was one of many.
Life went on like this for a long time until I said ‘enough is enough’ after a panic attack on a date with my wife. At that point (after years) I decided to do anything I could to find a way out.
I went to war on my anxiety and resolved to uproot the cause of it so it no longer controlled me. I read every self-help book I could get my hands on, attended courses, digging deep to find questions I needed to ask in order to end my suffering.
Once I had discovered how to overcome my own mindset and build my confidence, I wanted to help others do the same.
This led me to creating a highly successful coaching philosophy and Further Coaching was born. That was 5 years ago. Now we are a leading men’s confidence coaching business.
Now I know who I am. I’m ambitious, a visionary, a dreamer but a huge action taker. I love to work hard, study, research and explore so that I can find that little piece of knowledge or insight that takes me and my clients a cut above the rest.
I have an incredible and successful business, I’m the happiest and most confident I have ever been and I get to do what I love every day. Coaching ambitious men create a life they love.
Each past experience I’ve had, ‘good’ or ‘bad’, has given me insight and life shifting perspective. I’ve had failures, grown from them and stepped into a new version of myself.
The past has a special place in creating who we are today and that’s all. Once the past has done it’s job, that’s where we leave it.
I’m all about taking the lessons and moving straight into the now to design the powerful future that lies ahead.
That’s what I help my clients do as a men’s confidence and life coach and that’s what I can help you do as your life coach.
Put your trust in someone who is professional, experienced, qualified and extremely passionate about what they do to take control of your future today.
‘TRANSFORMATION DOESN’T HAPPEN IN ISOLATION’
You’ve struggled on your own for long enough.
I will hold you accountable. I will empower you to be your higher-self and not let you give in to your limiting beliefs. We’ll celebrate your wins together like family. Men’s life coaching can be transformational.
The Process: My 4 phase framework
PHASE 1: RESET
Get clear on what’s really going on. We help men identify their current challenges, unhelpful thought patterns, emotional triggers, and the identity-level beliefs holding back their confidence. This is where awareness and momentum begin.
PHASE 2: RECONNECT
Reconnect to who you really are. We help men explore their values, long-term vision, and deeper sense of purpose, so they can lead themselves with confidence, clarity, and emotional strength, rather than second-guessing and self-doubt.
PHASE 3: REALIGN
Make powerful, aligned decisions. We help men start making bold, meaningful choices without fear or paralysis. This is where we build consistent habits, lasting confidence, and emotional stability.
PHASE 4: RISE
Step fully into the life you’re meant to live. We help men take aligned action, move forward with confidence, and maintain clarity and self-trust, even when life gets messy. This is about real-world change, not just inner work.
How would it feel to
FOCUS AND REACH YOUR “IMPOSSIBLE” GOALS
I will provide you with the skills required to stay laser focused on your big-picture goals without allowing day-to-day challenges to derail you. If you don’t know what your goals are, we’ll find out together. I’m also a master at helping you gain clarity on what you want.
BE CONFIDENT IN THE FACE OF CHALLENGES
Challenges have the ability to derail your progress, but not when we work together. You will develop tools and processes that you can call upon and when you need them most.
BE YOURSELF COMPLETELY
We’ll work together to discover who you are and what you want and build on that person to grow exponentially. You’ll go into situations feeling calmly, confidently and truly yourself, without feeling insecure, an imposter or having to pretend to be someone else.
STRUCTURE YOUR LIFE FOR SUCCESS
Take control of your routine and habits and get proven techniques to set you up for success.
Feel more productive, more energised and more organised with your approach to each day, which will help catapult yourself towards your goals.
MOVE THROUGH FEARS SO YOU CAN GROW
Fears are the barriers to your growth. If you give in to fear, you will hold yourself back from opportunities that can change your life. Imagine having the confidence to move through these fears when they show up, resulting in huge action and belief in yourself. Everyone has fears but having the tools to manage them is literally life changing.
SILENCE NEGATIVE SELF TALK
By the end of our time together, you will have developed an unmatched level of 007-grade confidence and belief in yourself to keep moving forward, perform at your best, and transform your life. Negative self talk will be something you can manage, meaning it will no longer affect your feelings and action steps.
Committed to Growth – So I Can Serve You Better
I’m constantly learning, evolving, and expanding my skillset, not just for myself, but for the men I coach.
Through ongoing training, mentorship, and deep personal work, I bring fresh insights, refined tools, and more powerful presence into every session.
I bring a blend of certified coaching credentials, deep psychological training, and lived experience to my work.
My approach is grounded in emotional intelligence, identity work, and aligned action – always evolving to serve my clients at the highest level.
My training includes:
1
Level 5 Life Coaching Qualification & NLP practitioner Certification
2
Peter Crone ‘The Mind Architect’ Mastermind Training (Coaching Edition)
3
Level 3 Diploma in Personal Training – physical performance, motivation & discipline
4
7+ Years coaching experience – supporting hundreds of men globally
5
Connor Beaton training – Jungian psychology, somatic work, men’s shadow integration
Here’s what a few of my clients are saying
Josef Newton
– Co-Founder at Sway One
“I’ve developed much more belief in myself and the sense that I can achieve anything.”
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I feel much more confident in myself and just have generally more conviction in my business and work. During the period of working with him, I’ve developed much more belief in myself and the sense that I can achieve anything.
I’d highly recommend anyone who’s on the fence to work with Scott!
Stephen Wilson
– General Manager – Leadership & Strategy
“I am in such a better place than 6 months ago. Managing my negative thoughts and limiting beliefs & gaining clarity on how I want my life to look”
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Powerful, engaging and relatable is what comes to mind when I think about Scott. I’ve had the pleasure of knowing Scott for 6 months, during our 1-2-1 coaching sessions. Above all, I was impressed with Scott’s natural ability to make you feel understood, share insights that resonate and introduce practical actions and tools to support you. And, of course, his authenticity and self awareness, Scott intimately understands the inner workings of the male brain and how to align it with your personal goals. The way he tailor’s his approach of the individual, to what is in front of him, not assuming or judging, makes it feel truly personal. He simply, gets it.
Jordan Willshear
– Learning & Development Specialist
“I would 100% recommend Scott for anybody who was in my position. Scott is kind, wise and…”
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…a very knowledgeable person when it comes to coaching. He knows the right prompts to use to make me think deeper whilst also helping me realise some things that I had not realised myself. If you are looking to put the effort in on your self development and invest in yourself, I can think of nobody better to begin that journey with than Scott.
Phil Bacon
– Business Owner
“Scott has helped me shape and guide my thought process”
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What can I say about Scott…
Lets just start with he does exactly what he says he is going to do. He gave me the methods and ability to handle my issues with confidence.
Those that know me, will probably not know that I am not actually that confident and I have lots of internal struggles. I felt like an imposter, constantly. Working with Scott initially helped me overcome that and gave me the ability to think beyond these limiting beliefs.
Continuing on with Scott beyond the initial period, Scott has helped me shape and guide my thought process and overcome yet more barriers that I put up for myself.
And he genuinely cares! I can’t recommend Scott highly enough.
Daniel Chittock
– Senior WFM Strategic Planning and Performance
“My negative thoughts and feelings no longer have such power over me and I am able to be more mentally resilient and maintain a positive mental attitude even at the toughest of times”
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Even though my time with Scott was short in the scheme of things (only 2 months), the amount we were able to achieve together was inspiring. His methods are simple and effective, his style is effortless and familiar.
I was quickly able to feel relaxed and able to be open and honest. The more effort and commitment you give to the process of self improvement the more you get back. I can honestly say that as a father, partner and professional I feel happier and more content for working with Scott.
My negative thoughts and feelings no longer have such power over me and I am able to be more mentally resilient and maintain a positive mental attitude even at the toughest of times. I would definitely advise anyone who feels stuck in a key area of their life or who is struggling with maintaining a positive mindset to reach out to Scott. The best investment you can make is in yourself and your potential.
Mark Creber
– Professional
“I am now focused on being positive, confident and proactive”
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I was suffering from depression and anxiety for a long time and felt as if my life was drifting by. Since working with Scott I have taken more control of my life using the tools that Scott has shown me. I am now focused on being positive, confident and proactive, and leaving the negative aspects of my life firmly in the past. It’s not always easy and regular reinforcement is part of the process I use to help me achieve my goals.
I am now at the start of changing careers as this was a necessity for me in reevaluating my life. I feel that I can achieve much more since working with Scott and I have an increased sense of self worth.
There are some great tools that Scott uses to help reprogram a negative mindset and they make a big difference. Scott’s energy and positivity are integral to the success of his methods and his delivery is excellent.
If you want to change your life and burst through the door of procrastination then I would definitely recommend Scott as someone who can guide you on the path to future success and fulfilment.
WHO THIS IS FOR
You’re in the right place if you want:
✔ A clear, inspiring vision for who you want to become and how you want to live as a man
✔ Deep clarity on what’s holding you back – from thought patterns to identity beliefs
✔ Emotional strength as a men, to navigate pressure, setbacks, and uncertainty
✔ True confidence – the kind that doesn’t rely on external approval or outcomes
✔ Freedom from the noise – fears, self-doubt, anxiety, and what’s no longer serving you
✔ Real momentum – this is results-driven coaching for men who are all-in
✔ Accountability, structure, and tools to back the inner work with consistent action
✔ A grounded, no-fluff coaching space – honest, focused, tailored to men
WHO THIS IS NOT FOR
It’s not for you if:
✖ You’re a man who’s not ready to take full ownership of your life and mindset
✖ You’re a man who shuts down when offered honest reflection or constructive feedback
✖ You’re happy playing small or settling for “good enough”
✖ You’re a man who is unwilling to face discomfort to reach the next version of yourself
✖ You’re looking for quick fixes, motivational fluff, or someone to do the work for you
✖ You’re not open to being challenged, stretched, or supported
✖ You’re a man who wants change, but aren’t willing to put in the work to create it
✖ You want to keep repeating the same stories rather than rewriting them
Here’s what a few more of my clients are saying
Andrew Harwood
Phil Bacon
Andrew Heathcote
Toby Pache
Tom Garfield
You’ve come this far...
So take the next step in your journey now by booking your FREE Progress Call. Speak with us here at Further about the next steps and how men’s coaching can help you build lasting confidence and momentum.
I’m ready if you are. Let’s find out if we’re a good fit and if this coaching is right for you as a man ready to take action.